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Black Dating in a Hip Hop Society [VIDEO]

Thumbnail image for Black Dating in a Hip Hop Society [VIDEO] by Jessica Lynne November 15, 2010

Okay. So don’t hate me.  I am not trying to drag us all back through the single-black-educated-woman-woes. I promise. BUT I do find this video to be a hilarious take on the conversations that have saturated the market for the past six months. Like I said, I’m really not trying to take us back but [...]

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Ask Arielle: How do you prepare for more intense sexual play like fisting?

by October 21, 2010

Your question of the week: “How would you suggest preparing for more intense sexual play like fisting? Also, how should I talk about this type of kink with future partners? The issue tends to ostracize a lot of people at first.” I’m not going to even front like I have an answer to this question. [...]

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21st Century Gender Roles: Lesbian vs. Heterosexual Relationships

by October 21, 2010

Women of today have the unique privilege of renegotiating the definition of being female and woman. Female is the gender that we are born into and “woman” is the social construct that we embody and define for ourselves daily. Since childhood, we have observed examples of womanhood from our families, teachers, and various social outlets. [...]

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Disney Fairytales: Kissing Me Without My Permission

by October 14, 2010

I remember my mother reading me the Disney story of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. Years later, I decided to take another look at this fantasy fairy tale. Like many Disney princess stories, I realized something bizarre that I never noticed before. There is a theme of “helpless” women essentially being sexually assaulted. Now [...]

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Ask Arielle: Why are men fascinated with anal sex?

by October 14, 2010

Question of the week: Arielle, why are men fascinated with anal sex? My vaginal opening is not loose despite being in my forties and delivering two babies. Yet, I’ve had sexual partners ask me for anal sex as well. Why is that? I can’t speak for any man because I’m not one! ::laughs:: Though, I’ve [...]

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Living the HBCU Split: Heterosexuality & Feminism [ESSAY]

by Kyla Marshell October 14, 2010

When I entered Spelman College, an eighteen year-old little dollop of confusion and wonder, I was overloaded with a totally new life. The social and the academic both called to me in a way neither had in prior schooling. There were a million boys to choose from across the way, and many new sisterfriends to [...]

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